Would we rather be known by lots of people, have lots of phone numbers, and have plenty of people to hang out with? Or would we rather have people who know us and care about us, even if thats just a few people? Is it easier to be known by a lot of people without having to get too messy and involved with people?
If we say, then, that we really DO want those connected relationships, why are we living trying to please so many people?
What is the state of our wood floor if our rugs were to get pulled up all of a sudden?